What Angela didn't know and she does now.

After Finding out my wife Angela was having a Gay affair, I knew what I had to do. This was to protect myself from further deception. I told Angela that "I don't care what to do or who you do it with just don't bring it home to where our kids are." To me this seems reasonable but that is not what Angela did. Every opportunity she had while I was at work she would bring Mya home and spend time together while Mya kids was watching tv in the livingroom. I know this because after the divorce my daughter told me what was happening as I went to work on the weekends. Well, I can let whomever reads this to know what Angela has lost. I was saving for a real wedding and a honeymoon which we never had back in Dec 1987. I saved over $3000 in 4 years. I did this because it was to be a surprize for Angela. She used to ask me "If I wanted to marry her when we got married" and answering truthfully "I said NO". Let me explain the answer. Marrying her was never a question but the timing was wrong in my opinion. We were not mature enough or financially able to marry. Angela wanted to marry after I had just moved down from Long Island, New York. She wanted out of her parents house but It would make her happy so I went along with it. I know, it was my decision.