Restraining order and Fiscally Irresponsibility

Angela contacted me thru the mail to let me know the divorce settlement is still intact. Due to the drama my 15 y/o son doesn't want to see me and that is fine, his decision. I'll wait until his feeling are not clouded and manipulated by his mother. He will soon see with clear eyes what things really are and who caused his family to breakup. I was arrested just because Angela wanted me out of the house so Mya can move in so they can be together which she stated in the letter she mailed to me. She also stated if I stay away from the house and the kids she will not show up at the restraining order hearing. I told her I don't care if she goes or not but I will see my kids. I told her I don't care what she does anymore. Angela doesn't want the kids to know what truly caused the family to breakup. Angela told me the reason for the divorce is because I was fiscally irresponsible. I didn't pay the bills on time. That maybe correct but Let me give an example that my son came to me that he needed new sneakers so I told him let me see his old shoes and yes he needed new sneakers so we went to the store and I bought him what he needed. Angela got upset cause the Cable bills was due and I told her my son needed shoes and that the cable bill can wait. It will be paid I told her but Angela went crazy cause she wants everything paid on time regardless of what the family needs. I told her as long as the important things are paid that is all I care about. If that is my worst trait then I'll accept that.